A Parent Looks Back…

Hebrews 10:25 “Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together,
as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the
more, as ye see the day approaching.”

A Parent Looks Back

What impact does my life have on my family and generations to come?

Some statistics;

When mom only takes the children to church, 15% of those
children grow up to be active in a church.

When dad only takes the children to church, 55% of those
children grow up to be active in a church.

When neither parent takes their children to church, 9% of those
children grow up to be active in a church.

Our lives have a huge impact on our children by our words and
our deeds. The choices that you make with your family today will
determine the quality of life in your family tree for generations to
come. That’s why one person can make a difference and if you help your
family to know Jesus, it will be the single greatest and most fulfilling
task of your life.

“…VISITING the iniquity of the fathers upon
the children and the children’s children to the
third and the fourth generation.”
Ex 34:7

“WE WILL NOT HIDE them from their children;
we will TELL THE NEXT GENERATION the
praiseworthy deeds of the Lord,
His power, and the wonders He has done.
Psalm 78:4

According to the Christian values that govern my life, my
most important reason for living is to get…the Gospel
safely in the hands of my children. Of course, I want to
place it in as many other hands as possible; Nevertheless,
my number one responsibility is to evangelize my own children.
I hope the mission of other fathers agree with that ultimate priority.
– James Dobson

TRAIN UP a child in the way he should go, and when
he is old he will not depart from it.
Proverbs 22:6

A DAD LOOKS BACK

Where did the decades go? How could they have sneaked by so
fast? How could my little girl with ringlet hair and cherubic smile
already be twenty six years old? How could that little boy on the big
wheel now be thirty and married and raising his own children.

Wasn’t it just yesterday that they learned to write their names?

Now they are writing term papers, using e-mail and working to support
another generation. Wasn’t it just yesterday they asked Jesus to be
their Savior? Now both live in other parts of the country.

Gone are the preschool years, the elementary years and now the
teenage years. With the loss comes the recollection of so many great
times, and so many opportunities to reveal God’s goodness, His
guidelines, His love and His salvation.

As I think back on the opportunities I had during their
formative years, I’ve concluded that the most vital aspect of parenting
is your relationship with them. Only then can we maintain the fellowship
with our children where we instruct them properly. When parents and
their children share a relationship of mutual respect, new moments of
teaching build themselves into a lifetime of love and strong values that
they will not depart from.

Mom and dad make it easier for their children to listen to their
teaching by nourishing the relationship. It helps to make looking back a
great experience. GOD GIVES US CHILDREN for a time to train them in His
way, to love them and to teach them how to follow and obey.

Children may not inherit their parent’s talents, but they will
absorb their values; Portions from our daily bread – Jan 10 1997

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